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Are you an expert kisser? Would you like to learn to be?

OK, I’m not a cyber dating expert, but I’m starting to think I’m an expert kisser.

I’ve got a new girlfriend and, well, without letting my ego get too large, she says I’m the best kisser she’s ever met. And that’s not the first time I’ve heard such feedback; I’ve gotten around a bit.

So my philosophy is that when you have some expertise, I think you have to pass it along to help the less fortunate. With that in mind, here’s what I think you need to know.

In my expert opinion, the most important part of a really good kiss is to pay attention to the pressure. I really think that about 60% of kissing consists of really light, soft kisses. For soft kisses keep your mouth mostly closed as though you had a drinking straw between your lips, and your lips really soft. Don’t overdue the puckering and move around a bit; a couple square on the lips and then move around always hitting some of your partner’s lips but keep him/her guessing where the next one will land.

The other 40% should be harder kisses. These more passionate kisses should be divided, about half being on the lips with your mouth closed and the other half with some tongue. The key again is not to pucker your lips too much. Concentrate on keeping your lips soft and smooshie.

Now, with regard to your tongue technique. You want to play hide and seek; probe a bit and then pull back and wait to be found. As with your lips, the key is to do it softly. As an expert kisser, you should keep your tongue in the front half of your partner’s mouth for everything but the most passionate kisses.

Nobody likes to feel like their mouth is under attack.

Nobody likes to feel like their mouth is under attack. Oh, and don’t wiggle your tongue around like a puppy’s tail. It’s not about speed, it’s about tantalizing.

And nibbling you ask? Sure, a good kisser does involve his/her teeth now and then. I’d say that you should keep it to a minimum and you should be extremely attentive to your partner’s sensitivity to pain. Biting is an advanced technique so you should work up to it slowly. Everyone likes a little surprise now and then so using it sparingly will maximize the overall effect.

The last point that I’ll make is that nobody likes a sloppy kisser. Dry lips are OK, moist lips are excellent, but soggy just sucks. When you start, lick the inside of your lips a bit and spread the moisture around with your lips, but don’t get the outside very wet. Once you start smooching the moisture will come out by itself. Just remember to swallow once in a while so you don’t start drooling on your sweetie.

So that’s my expert advice. Keep it soft, don’t be dominant unless you are encouraged to be and don’t lick your lips. One last thing: If you find someone you like to kiss; emulate his/her moves. No one needs to be a maverick when it comes to swapping a little spit!

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